its smashed not by me but i have these all around and as far as talla is concerned they are fairy watchers.
Looks like a crane fly also called a mosquito fly.
Here is a link that might be useful: Crane Fly
thank you so much!! now i can tell her for sure w/o a doubt it won't hurt her, and hubs too. LOL the son well, he thinks it will and i showed him it won't but ya know, and he's much older!! LOL