I just got slammed on that "other" gardening website on the seed exchange. I was dumb struck. This lady is in a European country,she's made offers 3 x's in the past year I have turned down because they were seeds I didn't need(I have BOXES of seeds I traded for but didn't want to be nice and make someone else happy and the other time she only had a couple of seed var. I wanted(one were older seeds and research showed,the old seeds won't germinate and I had already tried old seeds from another trade)and I'm just plain not gonna waste postage to overseas on seeds I don't want or for only two packages. I wound up aplogizing and explaining myself to her( I don't know why,I was in shock) and she still presisted I was up to something hinky. I'm still upset as she did it in a public forum and now others are going to think I'm up to something funny every time I post there.
Rant over but now I've moved from shock/dumbstruck to P.O'ed.