what is this plant? how do I trim?
I'm new here and need some help. I am posting 2 photos of a plant I have had for nearly 21 yrs. It was given to me in a small mixed planter upon the birth of my daughter. It slowly grew into a "tree" and survived 2 moves. The 2nd branch began growing when the plant was 9 years old and after our first move. Fortunately, I had homes with cathedral ceilings as the plant is now easily 9 feet tall. The problem is, as you can see, the tall branch is drooping. Also, we are moving again and this time will NOT have cathedral ceilings. I need your help in figuring out how to trim without losing this plant, as it obviously has sentimental value. Advise and suggestions welcome! Thanks!