It is truly said: It does not take much strength to do things, but it requires great strength to decide what to do.
Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength.
I need to copy the Chhw Ching post and tape it to my mirror. Procrastination and indecision have always been two of my greatest weaknesses--among many others, I'll admit. :However, I can honestly say I am not deliberately rude--I won't say "never, b/c that would be a fib, but hardly ever, anyway.
I don't know how old Chow Ching was when he said that quote, but with advanced age, it gets more and more difficult to have the physical strength to do what we used to do and what we want to do.
No problem in selecting what we want to do, but now we need help to get it done.