Are gardeners melancholiacs
A friend of mine, a songwriter, once lamented that all of the good love songs are sad songs and the the ones about two people being happily in love tend to be la de de da da. He had a point. More accurately, however I think you will find that the best love songs are those about love lost or love soon to be had, the ups and downs as it were. Perhaps these songs are more realistic or more moving in their emotional range and we can relate to them more readily than a life of sweet smelling roses. Talking of sweet smelling roses, I think the same thing applies in the garden, that is, it is the growing from seed to fruition and then on to death that gives a garden its power. If peonies, for instance, lasted the whole summer would we appreciate their glory more, or less, would the delight of a static stand of those scarlet chalices pale after six weeks, ten? In my opinion the kind of arrangements that is so popular in this cities suburbs with three shades of pink impatiens backed by a row of cedars is the garden equivalent of the silly love song, prozac landscaping. A garden with all its ups and downs, its triumphant flowering and its dejection when the flowers turn to mush has the same melancholic flavour as a Keatian poem or a sad song sung by Billy Holliday. Melancholy is what I feel as I look out across the barren and snow covered fields but I realised just this morning that it is all part of the joy and I shouldnÃt try to block it out or pretend that it is not happening or wish I was somewhere else. Instead I can look back at what has lived and died here or look ahead to what will live and grow here again, isnÃt that better than bland? IsnÃt that what gardeners do?
Embothrium
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