Also, I've lost 3 flowers so far like this.. After watering the flower just shrivels and then I pick it off. It's not sitting in water, yet I still seem to lose a flower. :( what is this from? Am I not watering enough? About every 7-9 days I water.
Thanks for tips and advice.

You have a Phalaenopsis. Care notes from the American Orchid Society are in the link.
As to why your plant is losing blooms. Might be normal due to length of bloom time. Might be something in your care routine or something related to the conditions where you are growing your plant.

Here is a link that might be useful: AOS culture notes