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Clasp your hands

meldy_nva
11 years ago

Palm to palm and with the fingers intertwined. Now, is your left or right thumb on top? Now try it so that the other thumb is on top.

Re-reading 'Body Language' by Julius Fast. The above exercise was mentioned as an example of a habitual gesture (as opposed to a conscious or sublimally communicative gesture); most people consistently end up with one but not the other thumb on top and find it very difficult to arrange their hand to suit the opposite. According to the author, doing the opposite of the usual will make most people feel very uncomfortable. Interestingly, I found this to be one of the few gestures which I have trouble replicating to the opposite hand; being ambidextrous usually means I am equally comfortable stepping first with either foot, writing or drawing with either hand, brushing my hair with either hand, etc. Changing this gesture caused me no discomfort, just a feeling of awkwardness in having to think specifically about arranging the fingers.

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