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Idyll #418: Idyll time is winding down

chelone
15 years ago

Many of us are now facing the end of a holiday break. So let's make the best of it, OK?

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  • chloehoover
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    ROTFOL!!!! No,Chelone is only going to wonder how many glasses of vino have been imbibed, and why the heck Sue didnt want roast mouse served up..... I think I may have to go make a wardrobe change, Im laughing so hard....

    Ha, I was thinking of Honey today too - isnt she the one who suffered the vacuum cleaner assault? Every time I pull out my vacuum (which aint very often obviously) I think of how I might be injured with it... but I challenged it to a duel today and think I won.... but the back is failing - obviously an idyll disease/condition...

    Sue, do you think you could convince the mouse to move to the nice new shiny snow blower somehow??? entice him over w/ cheese or something...

    maybe he heard about the wonderful fish you like to grill and was hoping for some leftovers, not realizing he might be the appetizer?

    V-- holy --- dont you love it when they dont put their work back together? sheesh.. and where's a good house husband to fight these battles when you need one, right?

    Kathy, I will defer to your superior knowledge of what beverage to serve w/ roast mouse... I bet Sue's BTUs on her grill on high would char him to ashes dont ya think? I hope he didnt move his family in though....

    going to see if I can stop laughing....look for my usual winter mouse now.

    -cindy

  • dodgerdudette
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Wow, mouse in the snow blower-I'm kind of getting a "Fargo" vibe.

  • gardenbug
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Two years ago DH sealed all entry into the kitchen with caulking and SOS pads etc... Poor mice have had to play survival outdoors ever since. I especially hated them in the dishwasher. The cats would only play with a few of them every now and again no matter how I encouraged them.

  • jak1
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Up early this morning. Only about four hours sleep, not nearly enough. But yesterday I finally crashed and slept eleven hours. Is it possible to store up sleep?

    Mice. Yuck. We had them in our old house, but the bats are worse. DH became very good with a badminton racquet. Paws (our rescue cat) used to catch the mice and store them under the family room couch. They reeked! Here Paws catches critters ouytside and leaves them at the step for us. Or pieces of them. How sweet (not).

    V., I hate cars. They are great big open mouths that eat money. We are still trying to connect with the appraiser after our Dec. 20 mishap. Happy $500 deductable to us.

    Sue, sorry I cannot contribute to the snowblower fund because I actually WANT some snow here (I must be going nuts. It's the lack of sleep). Actually, with a few skiers in the family, and a small boy with a new sled, there would be joy in seeing the white stuff float down. Also, with our very cold temps, I would like a little protection for the gardens.

    Speaking of men and the white stuff floating down, no, not dandruff, our communication blockade here is about money. Now to get to the white stuff: the men here think money is manna from heaven that just floats down whenever you need in an unlimited supply. Well, it kind of is, as we are retired and our pensions get direct-deposited every month so the debit cards work most of the time. However, I pay the bills and I often feel like an old nag (because I am one?) when I give them heck about their spending habits, about wasting electricity, abount not thinking about what we have on hand to do something instead of just running to the Orange (I love that expression, by the way)or stopping at a restaurant for lunch instead of rushing home for the meal that I had already cooked. With a sizeable mortgage and a DH who has just been diagnosed with yet another progressive incurable illness, I am concerned about our future. Again, if it was just me, well, I wouldn't worry as much, but we do have a seven year old. I told DH this week that I would be stomping down on the cash flow this year, as we would be toast if he needs long term care in the future. We do not have long-term care insurance. Should have gotten some when we had the chance. Shoulda woulda coulda. Rant over.

    Last night we took TCS to the arena to skate from 8 to 9 p.m. There were few people there and he had a ball. After church today the skating is free so InterPhil will take him again, and then stay to watch the local hockey team play. I might nap!

    So my resolve to do more fun things with TCS has so far been upheld. Wow! and four whole days into the New year!!

    Cheers,

    Julie

  • chelone
    Original Author
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Wouldn't mouse fall under the heading of "game"? Couldn't you just reach in and grab him by the base of the tail while he has his head jammed into the corner of the grill? that's how they pick them up in laboratory settings. Once you have him in your clutches just pivot and whip that sucker into the neighbor's yard, or let the dogs have their way with him, bet they'd like that! Or, just turn on the grill... snap, crackle, pop! roast mousie! You people crack me up. We generally see dead mice by the slider all winter long, mostly the foolhardy ones who've decided the woodpile looks like a promising neighborhood... until they realize it's "gang infested", lol.

    I've been wondering about the "long lost" Idyllettes, too. I wonder how that silly dog, Missy, is falling into line in Honey's home... is anything in the house left unchewed or the garden left unturned by her eager paws and curious mind? Ei is due to resurface soon, and the original Nurse Ratchett is no doubt up to her cap in something interesting to do with the boys.

    Michelle will awaken ready to embark on a day packed full of "peanut time". :) What tales she will return to tell.

    Welcome home, 'bug. I'll bet the resident felines were happy to see their "hot water bottles with the opposing thumbs" return in time to open another can. And mine that litter pan, lol. Great to be loved, isn't it?

    While the coffee was brewing I ventured out to the Salon to monitor the temperature this morning. The smaller fires have built up the ash bed pretty well and yesterday I lit the stove and then loaded it so it would really burn hot. When I came in back to the house last night (8:30-8:45) the Salon was a cozy 74 degrees. When I went out this morning the Salon was 57 degrees and the soapstone was still very warm to the touch and there are still coals in it to rekindle the next fire. Window treatments will minimize heat loss a bit more, I'm pleased to note the stove is having the desired effect out there. Keeping the space at a minimum temperature is lots less expensive than maintaining it at comfy temperatures! And Cindy, I noted the battery in the smoke detector requires replacing... poor Chloe would be going nuts. So would Rex! it must hurt their ears, huh?

    Is Ebony's pneumonia something she contracted as a "stand alone" malady or is it an opportunistic infection that's slipped in as an aside to something else? I know nurse's refer to it as "the old man's friend" in hospitals, since it tends to set up shop in compromised health circumstances.

    Cynthia, I like the fabric you linked in the last thread very much. I'm not having much luck Googling the moire taffeta as many mills are just that, mills, and their goods are carried by a cadre of wholesale houses (from whom the retailers buy) who put their own names on what is essentially a generic product. It's not the same thing as, say, the specific fabric you linked that is probably an exclusive for Waverly. I've had a very good time browsing though on-line offerings, but I have to wonder how much time I'm wasting sitting here staring at a screen, trying to save a few bucks. Is it really worth it? I'm not entirely sure. I'll continue to play around with it until I'm ready to "pull the pin", but I suspect I'll wind up just going to the store, placing the order, and having the goods drop-shipped here. I also wanted to tell you I was interested in Hope's reaction to the fire. Rex is equally cautious when we have a bonfire outdoors, lowered head and nervous skirting of the immediate area surrounding the fire. The stove is a different story. All the animals are aware that it's hot and exercise caution but also recognize the comfort and quickly find spots near it to bask in its warmth. Only Polly made the mistake of landing on top of it when it was lit and hot. She was a kitten and as soon as her paddy-paws hit the surface she bounded off it. A nice aspect of soapstone is that while it gets very hot you can bump against it or bounce a finger of it and not get burned. She's never made that mistake again. Your dogs would look impossibly elegant lolling around the stoves here.

    Time to hit the shower, locate the replacement battery for the smoke detector and think about crossing one more piddly job off the "to-do" list before it's time to head out for brunch, noonish.

  • deanneart
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Sue, Doug says that is probably why the grill wouldn't start because there is a mouse nest in it. Yikes. Can you stand to put on some gloves and clean it out?

    Waving hi to all!
    Deanne

  • ctlavluvr
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Love the idea of wine with mouse in that mouse are so tiny the main course would be wine, yes??

    Squirrels, here, that got down the unused chimney through the ash hatch into the basement, up to the foundation sill, slipped off hitting the hot water switch. Twice. Befuddled humans all around. Heard a crash and Rich discovered the perpetrator. Corraled the furball back into the chimney then closed the hatch and sealed it shut with a heavy shovel. No squirrels since.

    Spent some wonderful time going through the fabric links. With all the windows we have, you'd think we'd've put up fabric a long time ago, but budget dictated other things first. Some year.... When I thought we would do 'it' went to an interior design shop who was happy to order the raw materials for me with a slight upcharge to her price. She looked at it that she would make a profit for essentially putting in the order. Something to think about, Chelone if you have your heart set on a certain producer and syscode.

    Not only thinking about Honey, but Taryn and others who were such welcome voices long ago.

    Love that the Idyllkids are utilizing winter as a fun time outside. Julie -- if TCS loves to skate I say flood your backyard :-)

    Then there's me, who has an open invite to my ski area client for lessons, rentals, passes, etc. at my whim. No, thanks but I'll take a toddy in the lodge!! :-) In younger days used to go camping in mid-winter and found it to be the best relaxation, ever.

    Have you started winter-sowing, yet, PM2?

    Select Seeds is a fav, but given the option I order from Pinetree (link below) since you can get just enough seeds for one year at prices that let you get pretty much whatever you want. Owned by a family in Maine and really nice people. You may want to check them out......

    Happily charting my day to include nothing more strenuous than making a pie.

    Happy 10th day!!

    Martie

  • prairiemoon2 z6b MA
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Good morning...

    Taking a break from putting away the ornaments. One of my favorite ornaments has gone missing and it is a mystery what happened to it. Why is putting them away not as much fun as putting them on the tree?

    Norma...I am trying to remember if Jake and Wyatt are twins? Wyatt is in first grade this year? My kids also played with legos and particularly my son enjoyed them a lot. When they were growing up, we always tried to give a new set each year for Christmas gifts. I wish they had some for adults of more complicated projects. Maybe in miniature. We didn't have legos when I was growing up. We had Lincoln Logs and Erector Sets.

    Chelone...your woodstove sounds like it is working out wonderfully. It was pretty cold last night too.

    Julie...glad you are catching up on your sleep. You must have needed it.

    Gardenbug...I would be interested to hear where DH found places to caulk and put SOS pads? Do you mean inside the cabinets, where they join the wall? I have yet to find any mice in the cabinets or dishwasher, but one was seen this fall sitting in the middle of the kitchen floor. Not sure if it came up from the basement. They seem to find a way in each fall and after three traps, we didn't find any more.

    Does anyone have an inkling of which thread the discussion on reducing electrical usage was on?

    pm2

  • gardenbug
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Keeping on topic, we often have grill problems due to spider nests in the BBQ. So I imagine Doug is right on target with his diagnosis Sue.

    Thanks for the return welcomes friends! I've been wondering how to sum up my trip and holidays and have come up with a blank...mostly because photos can't be posted at the university. They speak better than words usually, at least for me.

    In terms of how the perfect family is doing, I also draw a blank. I have no idea what to expect when a series of life altering events land on people. They are a very solid couple and that strength is wonderful. Both are still very fragile but enjoy keeping busy with projects, such as insulating their sunroom these days. Both have permanent government positions which are generous when times are tough. DSIL is aiming for another 6 month paternity leave and DD will have both maternity leave and a medical leave for establishing nursing of tiny one. But emotionally things are a real mix. As the mommy, I have this tremendous need to repair all damage for them...and of course that is impossible. Skyler seems to be doing quite well with his brother's loss. Therapy at school began instantly, and I think that was a huge help. He is a very up front open kid, so that is a bonus too.

    I read up on co-parenting while in Edmonton and there are really some good books, forums, and groups out there to help people. I wish X felt a need to improve in that department...but it seems she is perfect and doesn't need guidance. Sigh. Sarah is taking a back seat now on her reading and research because she is over stressed by her involvement.

    Last night we attended a party with games as a focus. I avoid games at all cost...and enjoyed chatter with friends. I even amazed myself by not nibbling the night away! Tomorrow will be Book Club and we will be discussing a book on the Dalai Lama, The Open Road by Pico Iyer.

    I have been assigned the task of coming up with baby names. I was going to stand clear of this, but DSIL wants me to contribute once again. We'll see how that goes.

    DH took a big walk this morning with Phoebe. Dressed in snowpants and boots to wade through the drifts, he encountered 2 fallen trees, one of which destroyed a young apple tree of ours. :( There are many deer tracks as well as dog tracks...which could be coyote tracks.

    I am hoping to hear from long lost Idylls and pets one day soon...

    'bug

  • prairiemoon2 z6b MA
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I guess 'refreshing' before posting should have made my resolutions list. [g] Sorry Martie. No, I am in a low energy period after the holidays and still have too many other things to pay attention to, to think about the garden. I have a feeling my seed sowing is going to be spring sowing this year.

    We flooded our backyard one year and it was really a lot of fun and exciting, but if your rink is small, only the little kids really enjoy it. DD was into figure skating and some of her friends were on the hockey team and that one year our rink was a fairly good size and they did enjoy it. It would have been better if it was larger though and we didn't have more room. Great if you have a large level place to put it and an assurance of sustained low temps. Sounds like you have the weather for one Julie. We found it a bit more work then it was worth for our circumstances.

    pm2

  • gardenbug
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    DH caulked against the mice and voles in the back of kitchen cupboards where water pipes enter from our basement. The cats are free to use the basement and sometimes catch critters there, but likely scare them upstairs too. DH caulked around the pipes, around areas leading to drawers, the sink and the dishwasher. When we needed to replace the DW, DH also sealed that entire area again.

    A second area that he also needed to caulk was in our kitchen island where the stove top fan leads to the basement. That fan was redirected to the outdoors at last. I say 'at last' because the fire detectors went off whenever we used the stove fan.

    By the way, with the installation of our new wood stove, we also installed new detectors. New Years is the time when we replace batteries as well. Have you replaced YOURS? DO that right now!!! :)

  • Sue W (CT zone 6a)
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    No, mouse was not the cause of grill malfunction. I actually fixed the grill last weekend and used it last week. Went out this morning to check. Mouse was gone and grill starts right up. Great source of amusement though, especially the discussion on wine selection. The other white meat...lol. Now I know why the dogs have been sniffing around the grill lately. I thought it had to do with the grease pan.

    So far I've managed to get absolutely nothing done around here today. I'm not even dressed yet. I'll probably take a nice long walk after lunch, hit the grocery store, workout and call it a day.

    Enjoy!

    Sue

  • dodgerdudette
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Yikes, it was 25 when I checked the temp at 8am this morning, and 32 now. Think Ill do some indoor tasks for a couple of hours. Im going to set up a orchid re-bloom station in the guest room, which has a west facing window unobstructed by Lady Banks or Celcile Bruner (unlike the downstairs west windows) and this time of year the western sun is pretty low and weak so it should be an ideal site. I just have to remember to go in there and water

    Chelone, I believe it may have been warmer in the Salon this morning than in my house- and it took forever to take the chill off in here.

    PM, I always find a least one ornament still on the tree after I drag it outside, and wonder how I missed it ? Im sure its somehow related to the washing machine eating socks. You could try doing a search of this forum, maybe type in electricity as the search word, unless you can think of other phrases that were used in the discussion. I use that search function when I want to go back and look at pics of Deannes containers !

    Sue, I agree that your mouse misfortune was worth every bit of amusement value-one must get ones jollies wherever they are found in January. Good news that no permanent damage was done. I am a charcoal griller and there are not many issues that can befall a Weber kettle, other than rust .

    bug, its nice to hear that DD and DSIL are such a source of comfort and strength to each other. I expect it is good for Skyler to witness this strong relationship-and hopefully is overrides the more negative aspect from his other parent.

    Ok, off to the guest room and will reward myself with a visit to Pinetree Seeds later this morning..

    Kathy in Napa

  • chloehoover
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Well, Im winding down myself and trying to get into the "mood" re back to the worker bee drudgery; Im just always greedy for more of whatever... good news is I have only to make it thru 2 full work weeks and then we get 4 days off due to the inauguration/MLK Day shows to happen - I plan to be nowhere but at home hunkered down for the insanity of it all.

    Glad to hear, Sue, that your vermin visitor took the hint after the face to face and skedaddled - he may have been hiding from your trusty "ratters"... whew.

    Im fairly happy with the headway I made in the house -- didnt quite get to all the real clean of the other bathrooms in the house; but at least mine is now decontaminated and the bedroom is looking almost open house worthy. I have made a lot of progress to getting the house back to once-upon okay status; if I keep at it a few more weekends I'll be delighted -- the kitchen floor needs a real cleaning, etc. -- the things on the infamous list seems to be things like "buy 3 new toilet seats; hang tiebacks for curtains, re-cover kitchen chairs" -- all things that are just need to be done at some point. Im not going to talk about the Big list of "new windows", paint living room, upstairs, etc..."

    I managed to unearth my garden photo albums and started looking over IU unions -- I always get get ideas and now recall some things I really wanted to try, so the list is growing there too, LOL... I've looked a couple of mail order websites - it's interesting that many of the ones I previously ordered from have discontinued their paper catalogs this year = which is a letdown; I really prefer lounging on the sofa/bed looking and reviewing the catalogs rather than cuddling the laptop.... I havent seen any interesting garden mags that have "great new 2009 plants" yet either -- maybe it's just earlier than I recall about that stuff...

    'bug - glad to hear you're home and getting settled back in; knowing there are things beyond our fix-it wishes is a hard thing to accept, but it sounds like you're doing pretty well in that. There are so many emotional landmines involved in most extended families that one just has to learn to ignore the others who are so narcissitic to think they're "perfect" -- how can one relate to a perfect person? not very well.... Im sure the counselors are helping your DD and DSIL to learn not to cater to her and just ignore her as best one can from time to time!

    I hope everyone is just relaxing and re-energizing for the week to come -- good to see Deanne check in from her bird yard -- I worry you're gonna get stuck out there and forget there's a world back in your house, LOL -- hopefully we can trust Doug to remind you to come in...

    Kathy - will it upset you to know I am comforted to hear you had cold weather today? 80s just doesnt seem right to us easterners.... I like the idea of your exotica annual you are planning for your "triangle" and elsewhere -- wish I lived near Annie's Annuals - they have the coolest stuff - including the gossypium nigrum that was so incredible at Chanticleer; they seem to be almost the only place around that had it....

    Okay, back to deciding whether to run to the grocery for a few staples of work lunches; or just chilling out; I have to resist the urge to take a nap - otherwise I'll be up forever tonite...

    O, Jerri - meant to say Im glad you're making progress re casts and hopefully with the swelling going down, you'll be more ambulatory and back to feeling like you'll be "normal" walking soon!

    --cindy

  • Jerri_OKC
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Sunday afternoon. That means tomorrow is back in the old grind. :( Nothing personal Chelone but this is the only Idyll thread that's ever felt depressing. Every day reminders that vacation is almost over. YUK! LOL

    Jerri

  • chelone
    Original Author
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Yeah, well Jerri, I'm in the same boat. I don't really want to go to work tomorrow, either. It's much nicer getting up, having coffee, and toddling off to do whatever you please for the day! It won't kill me, I suppose. And there's always the possibility of a "snow day" in the future. :)

  • chloehoover
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Checking in one last time before facing the reality of the work week.... I managed to clear out and organize the linen closet of 25 year old sheets and towels, among other things - almost as good as taking a nap.

    I meant to mention to you, Chelone, that I googled "discount moire fabric" and it brought up a few websites I recalled being helpful in my search -- fabricguru.com, schindlerfabrics.com, warehousefabricsinc.com -- they are some of the sites that had close-outs and sold some in bulk yardage (i.e., they have 54 yards to sell at a closeout price, etc...)... i saw a wide range of prices and yardage... not sure what colors or if you are thinking a moire stripe, or w/ a pattern; or simple yummy color w/ the moire pattern.... when you're talking 70 plus yards like you are, I think it might be worth the time to "shop"... but you may have a license that you can get a wholesale price w/ too...? in any case, there are a lot of places that sell Waverly patterns at discounts too..... but it does take some patience and eye glazing-over.... took me probably 6 weeks to really zero in on what I wanted....

    Ha, re the snow days -- they are talking some possibility of flurries/mixed here in the week - I'd love to work 2 days; take a day off, and go back for 2 more.... but I think my "luck" is over on that stuff and I'll have to tough it out.

    Julie -- that must be tough to be the purse strings of the whole family -- maybe you need to share the pain and put a couple of those eager family consumers in charge of some portion of the budget.... I confess I am against debit cards because I dont think it impresses on people the cold hard cash aspect they're spending; it's somehow just too like credit cards and people really dont keep count/balance of what they have left for other things somehow....

    Hope everyone has a not too stressed return to work or just return to their usual routines....

    --cindy

  • prairiemoon2 z6b MA
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Not looking forward to Monday here either. I'm not going to work but everyone else is. It was fun while it lasted.

    Yes Kathy...like the missing socks, the ornament still has not turned up. :-)

    But at least the new car is being delivered tomorrow! I think I can drum up some enthusiasm for that.

    G'night


    Oh...I was looking over Select Seeds...link to a very pretty Amaranth that at least looked similar to the one you posted the photo of, Kathy. Very pretty plant.

  • veronicastrum
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I'm not looking forward to going back to work, but I'm also glad that the job of taking down the tree with DH is now behind me. I think couples who are planning to wed should skip any other pre-marital counseling and simply see if they can take down a live tree without arguing or destroying anything!

    But the tree has been defrocked, cut to pieces and laid to rest across my heuchera beds. The dogs were happy to show me the evidence that the bunnies had been inspecting the beds already, so the pine boughs will be put to good use over the next several months.

    My sympathy gene is not working well today. When I left the house this morning, I noticed that the drive was covered with ice. I sent a quick text to DH to warn him. After church I swung by the P.O. to get stamps, and when I got home, I told him how icy the parking lot there was. So he went out this afternoon, paid no attention, and fell onto his arm and hurt it. le sigh! He keeps saying it's not bad, but then he makes these little groany noises, then quickly says again it's not bad. Okay ladies, sing with me to the tune of "Drunken Sailor":

    What do you do with a stubborn husband?
    What do you do with a stubborn husband?
    What do you do with a stubborn husband?
    Ear-lie in the evening.

    I'd better wind down this post and try to finish my book tonight. After tonight, my reading returns to about three pages a night before I nod off.

    V.

  • dodgerdudette
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    More roses pruned, but came back inside when the temps started to drop again, resulting in too much nose-blowing-does this happen to everyone? Annoying drippy nasal passages when outside in cold temps? Anyway, front garden roses are all completed - think there are about 15-ish out there, and back garden is started. I felt like Princess Charming wielding her magic machete as I approached Reine des Violettes what a mess ! She and Clematis Ramona are in a death grip , and RDV is winning by a mile, I could hardly find Ramona so engulfed had she become. Entering the equation was a Spirea and a Star Jasmine that I should have cut back to the nubs last winter. The Star Jasmine is devouring Niobe (or was) . Between the Spirea, Jasmine and RDV I ended up with two large piles of debris that will have to wait till next weekend to be put in the yard waste toter, which is already full. However, I can actually see the fence again. I had to just hack away at Ramona, once I uncovered her and hope she will revive .There was no way to tell what direction she was growing in. She looked pretty much like a slightly flat tumbleweed. I am thinking Ive probably got 4 to 5 full days in the garden to finish the pruning and winter clean up.

    Cindy, I did my linen closet last spring- a very satisfying task ! I had sheets in there for bed sizes that dont even exist in this house anymore . Anything with pills was converted to cleaning rags.

    Im kind of glad that I returned to work last week, it was very quiet and tomorrow wont be quite the rude awakening that some of you will have. At least it will be warmer in my office than its been in my house the last few days. Cindy, I will also be off part of Inaug week, by my own choice . I have boatloads of PTO , and since I always take Inauguration day off anyway Im going to stretch it into 5-day weekend. Crossing my fingers for dry weather for at least part of the time to finish the garden clean up. I had to go onto Annies Annuals website to see the Gossypium, that looks very cool!

    Jerri, you will be working from home for awhile , right ? At least you can work in your jammies if you want to !

    PM, the Amaranthus you posted is the one I ordered seeds of last Thur. Im going to start them indoors as soon as I get them.

    LOL V, my DH and I always said that couples should put up wallpaper together before committing to the nuptials- since he never participated in Christmas Tree deconstruction it was a moot point. I can so envision the little groany noises, probably only done when you are within earshot !

    I took these this afternoon, they are pretty crummy but you get the idea..signs of spring !
    {{gwi:146418}}From Garden Sept 08
    {{gwi:146419}}From Garden Sept 08

    Kathy in Napa

  • Sue W (CT zone 6a)
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Do you really want to know, V? LOLOL

    Terriyaki marinated and grilled NY strip tonight sans the mouse garnish. Not only am I not looking forward to the return to the mines tomorrow, I'm dreading it for at least the next six weeks. Year end-yuck!

    Time to read here too. Someone got me hooked on this book called 'Outlander' by Diana Gabaldon. Never would I have chosen a story like this on my own. It took over 100 pages for me to get into it but I was told to stick with it and I'm glad I did. Now I'm hooked and there are three or four others in the series. I picked up the second last week and hope to start on it tonight.

    No signs of spring here. January is the coldest month. If we get through it without a really bitter cold snap, the potential significantly drops for the rest of the winter. Next weekend I'll be heading up to my ski house again for a day of skiing-probably Saturday but I'll be keeping an eye on the weather.

    Night, night.

    Sue

  • cynthia_gw
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I checked the hellebores today after Kathy mentioned her buds & blooms, and found the H.Niger starting to bloom, and buds on many of the H.hybridus. H. foetidus (which shoots flower stalks around Thanksgiving) have been pumping flowers for a few weeks now. There's a lot of leaf burn on the niger & hybridus'essss? Not sure how to pluralize that. But new leaf folds coming in the middle.

    Count me in as bummed at going back to work tomorrow! I'm usually annoyingly positive about this stuff, (lucky to be employed, blah blah blah) but just not in the mood to start doing the heavy lifting again. As Chelone wrote, 'having coffee and toddling off' to do whatever around the house is a wonderful freedom.

    I'm packed for Florida, and decided poop bags would be perfect for shell collecting. Empty, they fit nicely in pockets and are waterproof and sturdy :) I didn't iron a thing, just checked over a collection of summer stuff and folded it all up. Squish. The absolute neutrality of color in my wardrobe makes coordinating a non-issue.

    Select Seed catalogue came a few weeks ago, and I've looked at that too. They don't have many 'special' tender plants this year. I've bought some unique plectranthus and salvias there in years past. I like Pinetree Martie, and used to buy basics from them. They don't have a very broad selection, but you're right about quantities, just right.

    I've got the dogs packed too :( And food thawing in fridge. Meal planning is hard because I try to not to send stinky stuff, but want to keep it interesting for the dogs. Hate to leave them and wish they could all go to Woody's! (She's thinking, 'thank goodness that woman lives different country.') Audrey is the lucky one, she gets to stay home with room service.

    So, I found these tips for shelling at Sanibel:

    "When walking in the water looking for seashells make sure to drag your feet. This is for two reasons:
    a) Some seashells are partially buried in the sand and you could stumble upon them
    b) There are stingrays in the water (especially in the summer). The stingray will harmlessly swim away if he is just nudged. However, if you step down on top of one it can leave you with a nasty wound. Shuffling your feet prevents the stepping down on their back that is necessary for them to sting."

    Much more fun research than work.... (And I hope that reading that didn't cause Jerri any discomfort.)

    'gnight
    Cynthia

  • chelone
    Original Author
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    The last few days have seen a huge flock of Robins completely strip the Blue Princess holly of her pretty red berries. The helpmeet counted over 40 of them and they were gliding down into the holly in 3s and 4s. Poor Polly was going out of her mind watching them, we let her out when her pleas became too pitiful to ignore and laughed when the Robins retreated to the maple tree and she was at the door asking to come in about 15 minutes later. Note to self and helpmeet: Plant more Hollies, and plan to leave the berries on the plants rather than harvesting for holiday decorations.

    Julie, I love the stencilling you did for TCS. Did you use a stencil brush or did you use a sponge? I have an exacto knife to cut the old-fashioned oiled stencil board and one of those electric hot thingys that will melt through the plastic stuff, but I've never tried it. Looks to me, though, as if it would be pretty nice for more intricate patterns. It'll be awhile before I get to that stage of things (unless of course, I get fired today, which could happen).

    V., several years ago I fell on a frozen puddle on my way to the car. I broke my wrist. A needless expense, a painful experience, and now I put those pull on cleats over my footwear whenever there is a chance of falling. You guys (and everyone else!) should have at least one pair for the house and another for the glove compartment. The local news is warning about the possibility of black ice this morning. I'm in charge of tree removal and that may happen on Wednesday if the weather is crummy enough to warrant a "snow day" or, that failing on Saturday. I know the exact sound emitted by an uncomfortable spouse. Sometimes my innate callousness manifests itself when I simply leave the room or close the door. ;)

    I have to return the sample books to the fabric store this afternoon and then return a library book. Then I have to turn my attention to plugging the nail holes and cracks between the Advantec OSB sub-flooring in the Salon. I tried some caulk that I'm not wild about, my brother suggested I try some Liquid Nails since it will adhere to anything and dries very hard. So I'm going to give that a whirl in a small area.

    All the talk of organized linen closets and other small organizational tasks makes me want to do more of them, lol. Wish I was allowed to do some of that at work, lol, but that will NEVER happen. Whatever!

    OK, so what am I going to do with the remaining 3/4 hr. I have to kill before I'm to go to work? Not enough time to do anything truly meaningful around here and too much time to kill with a leisurely "long way to work" drive. Hrrrmmmff.

  • saucydog
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    It's just not fair to have a two hour delay after a long holiday! I was all ready for some peace and quiet....and the rest of my week is full of appointments! Oh well...it will come....

    Chelone, try some leveling compound. It comes in a big bucket....soupy texture....and it levels itself. You use a squeegee type tool to work it into the cracks. You can do this standing upright. I've never painted it, but I'm of the thinking that if you can prime it, paint will stick :) I imagine that you could dip it out by the cupful to work in smaller areas. I've only seen my husband do it, and he only does things one way: the messiest way possible. He wonders how I paint without getting any on me...

    This weekend was nice. I got my workbench in the garage. I still need to install my new work light and tropical posters, lol! I am thinking that I would like to work on some "bowls" that you could fill with water for the birds, or reflection. I want to try painting some of the leaf castings, too, so I could combine the two: a vessel with a leaf cast into it, and painted bright colors. Little and Lewis has been stuck in my head.....

    The mouse capades were too funny. With all the mouse books and movies around our house, Nick and I don't get much sympathy when we bait the mousetraps.

    Norma, Kinex are as fun as Legos....I think boys are hard to shop for in the wintertime months :) There's a new type of skateboard that all the kids are wanting, too, something with "stick" in it's name. And then there is always a cool origami book.

    Well, the family has descended upon me with such requests as, "have you seen my belt?" and such classics as, "where is my pink Jonas brothers shirt?" so I guess I must go.

    2 hours can't come fast enough :) I hope Eden has made out okay with her case of cabin fever, too, as she has a bit longer to go than I.....

    Saucy

  • saucydog
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Try the link below, Chelone. This will fill the larger fastener holes, plus any cracks between the plywood sheets, and it stays flexible.

  • gardenbug
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    This from Julie's other posting:
    "I was so disorganized this morning getting TCS off to the school bus. Note to self: find stuff for the morning the night before...."

    Friend, I think it is time for grandson to prepare his affairs for getting to school. Skyler was delayed in this department for health reasons, but now he is WAY behind at age 9. It came to a big scene this past week when Sarah tried THREE TIMES to leave the house to get him to Tai Kwan Do. Sarah had to suggest he bring his uniform, his jacket(minus 22F) and then go back to shut the door. Then, once they arrived across town, it turned out he brought the wrong uniform and guess who had to drive home to collect the correct one... Sarah made it clear that he owed her big time and she was trying to determine what she should ask for. I think she was going to get him to decide what would be fair. This is a difficult business because stepson's mother retaliates when he does not attend.

    It turns out that Skyler's Mom has finally seen the light and today will say NOTHING about what he must do to prepare for school and be on time. He can do it and finally be responsible for his own affairs..INCLUDING LUNCH!

    I hope you can begin this with TCS and forgive yourself when YOU are the one who can't get yourself going. ;)

    Last night I organized about 50 old photos to share with French Club. Another fellow has 40-50 pictures from an exhibition of his work, and that rather frightens me!!!

    I also got pictures together for Skyler's Christmas book and DH will have that spiral bound today.

    I'm off to the doctor this afternoon and to Book Club tonight. I think I'll try posting photos on another thread.

    'bug

  • chloehoover
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Sue -- I Loved the Outlander series -- Im an "original" fan and used to wait with baited breath for the next one to come out; they were always a few years in the making -- I think even Chelone would heartily approve of the historical aspects of Scots history; but Im not sure she could handle the time fantasy/ bodice ripper part, LOL..... if we lived closer, I'd let you borrow my hard-copies; they are not lite-weight tomes...

    Cynthia - that's neat re Sanibel -- it's funny -- I've always had a thing about shells and have collections of them strewn all over my house -- I've got shells collected by my parents and their parents from Mexico and various Florida locations, Caribbean, etc. -- I was just dusting 'em off over the weekend in my bathroom and admired them -- some are things I've had since I was a toddler (there's a neat but slightly bedraggled starfish I still cling to) -- so enjoy your shell collecting and I look forward to hearing if you get any cool things... wouldnt it be great to be retired and able to go beachcombing/shelling whenever ya wanted? I wonder how Ei did there...

    It's probably really good for your dawgs to go to another place; change their schedules, altho Im sure you're worried re Monty - but he'll likely do just fine.

    Well, they're yacking about freezing rain/sleet/ice for tomorrow -- much as I'd love to take the day off, I think I'll have to do my best to get in here to the awfice and work some more on the 200 emails plus I've got things to do w/ .... I must admit, it was 2 weeks of the best time I've had off in recent years -- I probably can only remember going to Spain in 2003 as perhaps better (and it was 3 weeks)....& so far I've managed to retain some relaxed 'tude which is unusual for the first day awfice return... probably that contemplation of 2 weeks, another holiday!

    Saucy -- cant wait to see your Little & Lewis interpretations -- I bet they'll be wonderous - what a nice thing to get excited about making during the winter lull!

    'bug, your recitations of the Skylar antics reminds me that my DD had issues re going to school and delays in the a.m, just about age 8... maybe it's part of the "age" group.... I've heard of parents running to schools picking up books for kids in their senior year of high school ... now that's a prescription for dependent kids, LOL -- so Skylar and TCS may yet have hope....

    --cindy

  • woodyoak zone 5 southern Ont., Canada
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I did a Julie Job today - finally took down the tree! Randy had decorated it by himself this year and I thought it looked a bit skimpy... When I undecorated it I realized he only put about 1/3 of the usual ornaments on it!

    ((Julie)) I hope your DH's health issues turn out to be stable and keep any long term care needs a distant prospect! That all sounded worrisome.

    Count me in the group of people who has read/liked the Outlander series... There are cerainly parts of them that are 'over the top' in places but, on the whole, they are an interesting/fun read.

    Cynthia - We've never dog-sat a greyhound but would cerainly consider it if the opportunity arose - as long as they had met Misty in advance and I was resonably confident she wouldn't end up as dinner! :-)

    gb - remember that breed book you read the description of Bouviers in when you picked up Phoebe? We were giving Misty a thorough grooming and deknotting(!) today and I looked at that book, comparing the Shih Tzu and Lhasa Apso descriptions... Misty is supposedly a mix of the two. I think she's got more of the Lhasa characteristics than Shih Tzu. Lhasas are rated as 'For Experienced Owners Only' whereas Shih Tzu are rated as 'Fine for Novice Owners' :-) In the History section there are comments that seem relevant to Misty's affection for big buddies : ' [The breed] originates in Tibet, a land of rugged terrain and climate. There he is called 'Bark Lion Sentinel Dog'. In village huts around the sacred city op Lhasa he barked when strangers approached, whereupon the huge Tibetan Mastiff would lumber over to investigate.' I can picture Misty working like that with a monster-big companion:-)

    It was a very nice day here - for the time of year! - and Misty and I enjoyed some pleasant walkies together.

  • michelle_zone4
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Hi from sunny, warm Florida.

    The weather is great and the company even better. We spent the day at the beach collecting sea shells, playing in the surf and the sand. Kenzie was hilarious when she dug a big hole and then decided she wanted to be buried in the sand. So we buried her up to her neck and then made a mermaid body for her.

    Today we visited a garden today and had a picnic there also.

    TTYL

    Michelle

  • Jerri_OKC
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Dang, I want to be in Florida! LOL

    Have fun Michelle.

  • cynthia_gw
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Oh this is beyond sad. My sister broke her leg this morning at work. Sensible shoes and a piece of cellophane on the floor. She's been wanting this Sanibel trip (for her special birthday) for the past 5 years. It just breaks my heart, and she's in a ton of pain waiting for her 9AM appt tomorrow with an orthopedic surgeon. (Popping oxycodon left over from brain surgery.) The clinic her work took her to took x-ray and thought it wasn't broken, but she couldn't walk. Fortunately someone else looked at the film after they wheeled her out and said 'oops broken' and called her at home. Her kids are out getting a wheelchair and a commode and moving a bed to the kitchen for tonight.

    Ooosh.

    Cindy, you can have my ticket for free if you bring me some shells :-). 10ish on Thursday morning at BWI. Anyone in New England want the other one? Providence, 8AM.

    Soak up that sun Michelle!

    I need wine.

  • veronicastrum
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I could go for retirement and shell collecting in Florida. I went back to work today and while it was not a bad day, it was not sipping coffee and deciding what household job to tackle. Ah, but there's that December snow plowing bill that arrived today. I shall return to the salt mines again tomorrow.

    DH got a call from his mother today. She encountered the ice in her driveway as well, but with even worse results. Two broken ribs and a damaged rotator cuff. :( They will wait for the ribs to heal before they decide what to do about the rotator cuff. I've offered to bring over dinner tomorrow evening. She's not a "patient" patient, so this will be a long week.

    Denise, maybe we can get you out here for the deposition, LOL! MIL is not the litigious type, but there is a homeowners association where she lives, and they switch snow removal contractors this year to a lowball contractor. She's had a few complaints about the promptness of their service, and since we got our ice overnight and she fell at 5:00 pm, I would say they were rather extremely late in salting the driveways.

    Chelone, I have no false pride when it comes to dealing with ice. I have a pair of ice cleats, and if I am caught without them, I am a firm believer in itty-bitty, teeny-weeny baby steps. And I don't care if anyone laughs.

    Julie, I'll echo some of 'bug's comments about TCS. My kids went to Montessori schools up through 5th grade, and even more importantly their parents went to Montessori parent meetings as well. They really stressed developing the child's independence by allowing them to do as much as possible for themselves. For example, a preschooler can help with food prep by cutting softer foods with a dull knife. The parent's task is to avoid criticizing when the pieces are not as uniform as if you had done it yourself. There's much more to the home philosophy than I can put into a short post, but there's a lot of info on the internet or at the library. Here's a quote I liked, "The adult model is always the most important element in the (home) environment. It is from observing what we do, not what we say, that the child will learn."

    Time to tackle this evening's to do list.

    V.

  • veronicastrum
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Oh, Cynthia! I am so sorry to hear that. What crummy, rotten timing for "da both of you" as we say in Chicago.

    V.

  • prairiemoon2 z6b MA
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Good evening :-)

    Long day today, working out the final details on the car and insurance matters, but finally all the decisions are made large and small and now all we need to do is wait for the car to be delivered tomorrow. We had a snafu over the weekend, that we thought was worked out until we discovered this morning it was still up in the air. But it actually worked in our favor and we are not disturbed by the delay. At least the snow has held off and there has been little inconvenience so far.

    After much researching and stewing about it, we went with Amica Insurance. I had never heard of Amica before Chelone mentioned it and I have no idea why, since I discovered they have been part of two previous Consumer Reports studies and at the top of the list of reported companies that JDPowers did a study of, for customer satisfaction and I even saw one of their commercials today too.

    I looked into Geico, but they are still not offering insurance in Massachusetts. We investigated two local independent agents locally, but in the end, just didn't feel like the companies they were representing were looking as good. State Farm was one that I was considering looking into, but never got that far, after seeing them keep placing lower than Amica in all the reports. Checked out the 'Best' website that rates Insurance companies. Premiums were not that different, no more than $200. difference between any of the companies.

    So, I feel great! I have been wanting to review the coverage for a couple of years. Now I feel on top of it, knowing what we should have, and having upgraded our coverage on a few line items. It is not a perfect company but pretty sure there are none out there. I'm sure despite my best efforts there's room for something to fall through the cracks, but overall I think it's as good as I could work it all out and now I can forget about that for another year. I do hope to review it every year now to make sure it stays that way.

    So while waiting for people to call me back off and on today, I discovered iGoogle. Has anyone set up a home page with that? I had a fun time playing around with it. They offer some neat Themes that decorate the top of your page, that change through the day. One is a Japanese Tea House Theme, that changes from daylight to night and creatures in the scene move from one place to another. Lots more too. I looked at widgets and they had a lot of garden related ones that I added. But I have had a headache most of the day from too much computer. [g]

    So nice to hear how refreshed you sound, Gardenbug, and Michelle so busy having fun in Flor-i-da. I will have to check out the 'Outlander', since I find books set in Scotland very interesting. I had a book out of the library last week and it was such a dud, it is going back after barely a chapter.

    Waving on my way to bed...

    G'night

  • saucydog
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Oh Cynthia! Ouch for the leg, and ouch for the sister shell hunting trip! I enjoyed the link you posted, because I remember having similar shell (and sand dollar) luck at Panama City.

    Surely the airlines will at least let you use the tickets at a later date? I think you'll have to pay a fee though.

    And V! An unpatient patient is no fun! I hope she has a speedy recovery. I lost my husband on the walk this morning and Jake reported that Zeus can ice skate while on all fours.

    I'll bet Julie was venting more than anything, and that even if TCS was getting ready all by himself, it would've been a rushed morning after a long winter break. Jake missed the bus after a two hour delay....and after smugly telling me he had plenty of time to get to the bus stop before he left :) I smiled inside...not on the outside. He was mad, but I was in a good place to make the drive. Tomorrow would've been a different story....

    I'm going to go plop on the couch with a mountain of laundry and see if there's anything on t.v.

    Stay safe idyll friends!

    Saucy

  • prairiemoon2 z6b MA
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Oops...still not refreshing :-( So sorry V about your Mom! How awful! How do they deal with the ribs, wrap her up? I've never seen cleats. Where do you get them? I don't like to use salt on the front walkway or the driveway. If it gets bad, I've been known to throw down sand. I hear in a pinch, Natural Kitty Litter is good for that too. Hope she can get comfortable until she starts healing, V.

  • dodgerdudette
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    My word, what a day on the Idylls. All manner of woes and some bright spots strewn in between
    ((Cynthia and Sis)) , what a crummy deal. Hope the airlines and lodging involved treat you fairly and you are able to re-schedule . And a speedy recovery to sis.

    And weve got Vs MIL in sickbay too.

    At least PM has a positive note, the insurance caper wrapping up and on the eve of the new vehicle did you get a 4WD PM , or a sedan ? I know you said it was a Honda but I dont recall the make. CRV is my next car .

    Saucy, I think your workbench set-up sounds divine ! Im going to re-vamp mine when I do my New Years Resolution garage purge. I hope you will provide us with pics of your Little and Lewis creations.

    Ok, thats all I have in me for tonight

    Kathy in Napa

  • chloehoover
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    O, what bummer news, Cynthia --- I imagine your DS is feeling like a big black cloud descended over her head; I concur w/ Saucy's idea -- if non-ref tickets hopefully you can re-schedule for the spring... or you could surprise her w/ a trip to visit her and be nurse ratchett for the days you were scheduled to go so she wont feel so pitiful???

    PM -- the cleats are sold as Yax trax, I think; i'll likely be wearing mine tommorrow too...ice, ice and freezing rain...assuming I get out the front door - that's usually my pronouncement - if I know Im gonna go flying off the top step of the stairs at the door, it's turn around and go back inside; I've taken the header once too often like that to know I'll end up like V's MIL next time... that's horrible too -- any older person suffering those sorts of broken bones that take so much longer to heal -- geez o flip! I hope that's the end of the ice-mishaps for people we know....

    Glad to hear at least Michelle is making mermaids in Florida and can tell us about shells.....

    -cindy

  • prairiemoon2 z6b MA
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    O Cynthia...I'm sorry...I was just scanning a little too fast. Now that is pretty discouraging. A piece of cellophane?! I sure hope you can reschedule. Sometimes the airlines are pretty responsive to cancellations due to accidents and illnesses like that. Even if you have to pay a reasonable penalty.

    Well...I hope that everyone trying to mend bones gets enough calcium in their diet...Collard greens are full of calcium. Swiss cheese!

    Kathy...we stuck with another van that replaces our old one. Front wheel drive but not all wheel drive. The CRVs are really nice too. We did test drive one. DH has to transport his Mom to Dr appts and it is easier for her in the van.

    Yak Traks, Cindy? That is a funny one. I guess they give you the traction of a Yak. [g]

    What a day! Sending healing and 'knitting' vibes...

    :-)

  • Jerri_OKC
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Oh my gosh, a few hours can really change everything can't it? I'm so sorry to hear of all the slips, falls, and misshaps. I hope the trip can be re-scheduled too.

    This reminds me of the evening 12 years ago when I slipped on black ice and broke my foot. I hope all of the new patients have much better outcomes!

    Jerri

    P.S. Ebony is feeling better and came home tonight! YEAH!
    Her xrays still look bad but hopefully after a couple of weeks of meds she will be better. I'm to call the Vet back on Monday.

  • gardenbug
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Yak Tracks were my Christmas gift from DD. It is great...but a bit disconcerting to have them worry so about our decrepitude. There were comments about our staircase safety as well. But I'm only 29!!!!!

  • chelone
    Original Author
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Cynthia, I am so sorry to learn of your sister's mishap at work. She must be so uncomfortable, but more than that so disappointed that the trip will be delayed. I will dutifully cross my fingers and emit good vibes to the cosmos that airlines and accomodations will work with you so the trip will come to fruition when all is healed.

    My wrist was the "dope slap" I needed about falls and a good overview of safety precautions. It served me well when Mum came to live with me. Proper lighting in stairwells, rugs that don't "slip", and good, solid hand rails (the kind you can actually grab securely) are key. And "good, sensible shoes", but as we've just learned there is no guarantee. I am perpetually concerned about falls at work as my co-workers regularly toss scraps, pieces of zipper, and used bobbin spools on the floor. And I am the only one who makes an effort to keep the floor swept. Don't get me started on work, yesterday was predictably discouraging and that's why I'm typing at after 6 AM.

    I loved the missive from Michelle. S'pose we'll get a shot of Kenzie buried up to her neck in sand? Maybe Eden could respond with a shot of Bella up to her neck in snow! I smiled when I read your post, Michelle, I could hear the joy in your words. Have a ball!

    Saucy, funny you should have mentioned floor leveller as it was a product I looked at for a good while on my last trip to the hardware store. I hesitated because I wasn't sure how well a a think layer of a product meant to go under something would hold up to foot traffic. I wasn't able to find the answer on the label, but I'm going to e-mail that question to the company. I received great help when I did the same thing with respect to skim-coating the masonry. I laughed at Jake missing the bus after a two hr. delay (that's pretty funny), musta been havin' "one of those days", huh? like the pink Jonas Brothers shirt query, too. :)

    Julie, the helpmeet does not labor under fiduciary worries, either. ;) He's not disposed to look at a balance in the checkbook and think about what bills are due to land on the sideboard in the coming week, probably because he isn't the one who sets the time aside to pay the bills. That's my job. We don't have debit cards, either, Cindy, just the one joint checking account. I would be driven slowly mad if we had them, I fear, as I'm a "to the penny" kinda gal and he's an "in the ballpark" kinda guy. ;)

    I've said this before but Mum and Dad were definitely into "idiot-proofing" their kids as early on as they were able. Age appropriate choices and decisions were part and parcel of my brother's and my own childhood and adolescence. So were CONSEQUENCES for poor ones. They were always willing to help us out of a pickle but they definitely let us marinate in the self-created brine for a bit, so the point was clearly made. Personal responsibility and accountability were just part of the daily wardrobe and were "sized up" to accomodate increased maturity. I missed the school bus exactly one time in my high school years and my father was incensed because the school was long way off and it meant he was put behind schedule for HIS day. Had school been closer I'd have been told to walk, a note in my pocket. Another big feature of our upbringings was learning to read and follow directions properly (and look where it's gotten both my brother and I!). I am regularly astounded at the amount of nose and ass wiping parents happily shoulder for kids who should be way beyond requiring it. Self-sufficiency is a very good thing for the individual and the community as a whole. JMO.

    Waving to everyone as I prepare for another day of thumb twiddling in chaos land. ;)

    Good to hear you were favorably impressed with Amica, PM!

  • saucydog
    15 years ago
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    See, somehow Michelle and PM's posts were not there when I was posting yesterday...I'd swear it! Am I losing my mind? Further investigation is required....

    That boy (I call him "that boy" when he's not my sweet little Jake) went and missed that bus again. That boy left this house one minute earlier than usual. That boy got a lecture on bus driver "thinking" last night (bus drivers like to get back on schedule after the first of the year....and since you're first on the bus, you're going to feel the time crunch the most). That boy had to hang his head like a dog to ask me to drive him to school this morning :)

    Chelone, I had this whole big thing typed out about the fears of parents brought on by the media - and how I think it's made us a little nuts. But I deleted it. And now it is gone. Maybe we could discuss the highlights in a car going to a garden someday :)

    Sarah's got her physical this morning. She's worried about getting a shot. This afternoon she has ceramics class which should make everything okay in her world :)

    Have fun in Florida, Michelle! I have a picture of Sarah "dressed up" like a mermaid in the sand....we made Jake into a muscle man :)

    PM, you'll be able to go see your son more in your new ride!

    TTYL

    Saucy

  • prairiemoon2 z6b MA
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Good morning! January 6th already. Today is the first Tuesday of 2009. Don't worry, two more days of this, is all you have to put up with. [g] I wonder, has anyone here ever kept a schedule that related to which day of the week it is? You know, Monday is cleaning day, Tuesday is shopping, Saturday you do the errands, laundry is another day. Wednesday, is Prince spaghetti day...Anthony! :-) I always wanted to do that and somehow I never have. Laundry is Saturday and chores are more often Saturday then any other day, but that is about it. I also always want to have a clothesline and hang all the laundry out to dry but it's been a long time since that happened. I think my head is stuck in the 50s, sometimes. lol When there were one income families and most of the Moms were stay at home.

    Julie...I think that is so neat that skating and the pool are free for the kids. The Police Association is very clever. .....I think what Cindy might have been trying to say about your money management, is that sometimes there are things that just can't be 'communicated', easily. You can talk until you are blue in the face. Sometimes a person has to experience for themselves the reality and anxiety of how much things cost and how are you going to pay for them, before they will take more responsibility for creating the bills. .... I had a nice orchid growing for two years and it bloomed well, until I tried repotting it. ....I have tried taking Pelargonium cuttings a few times but haven't had any root for me. I wonder if you are doing something different? Is your solarium window facing South? ....and your 'Happy $500. Deductible' remark pushed me to at least ask how much extra it was for a lower deductible on our new insurance policy. It was only $52. more for $300. deductible. I figure it would take 4 years to equal what one claim would cost with the higher deductible, so we got it.

    Chelone....I saw that Soldiers of the Civil War calendar, neat idea. ... I have been seeing red smashes all over the driveway and I am wondering if it is the berries from the Princess Holly. But I can't figure out why they are not getting eaten instead of ending up on the driveway?

    Kathy...your arms must be getting a good workout with all that rose pruning. ....lucky you to be close enough to Annie's Annuals for an in person visit. Looking forward to your Annuals garden this year and the Amaranths. Oooh...such pretty hellebores! I love the white ones. When do you cut off the old foliage? ...I forget, have you lived in California all your life? Here in New England, the drippy nasal passages when going out in the cold temps is the expected winter experience. I actually feel it is part of the charm of winter weather. Cleans out the passages and better than all that dry heat in the house. [g]

    Happy to hear Ebony is better, Jerri. Speaking of haircuts....I've been trying to grow mine out for about 4 months. I was used to getting it cut very short for years. It is not working out. Now it always looks a mess and is way too much trouble.

    Cynthia...I hope DS's break is a simple one. You both must be beyond disappointed to say the least. When were you scheduled to leave?

    V....So awful about your MIL. How old is she? I hate to say this, but at least it was something that might allow her to stay semi-active and not bed bound. At her age, breaking a hip would be so much worse. You also have my sympathies about DD's car. Our oldest went too long with old cars that were always a source of aggravation and inconvenience. I was never so happy when he was able to buy a new car with a warranty and AAA. [g] Now for the other two to get to that stage.

    Saucy...your workbench sounds so inviting! I love the addition of the tropical posters. I am going to link to the iGoogle Tropical Theme in case that appeals to you. I would love some water bowls for the birds. That is a great idea! I have yet to get as many bird baths as I need. I like the idea of something that fits into the landscape more.

    Speaking of changing batteries in smoke detectors...do all of you have carbon monoxide detectors too?

    I see the weather forecast for the rest of the week is horrendous, snow, sleet, rain, ice....yuck! Great week to bring home a new car...lol. I think we will try to get out today and enjoy the lack of precipitation while we can. I was looking up those Yaktraxs this morning and I see a number of comments about them breaking and falling apart very quickly. Anyone have any complaints?

    Oh...one last thing. Believe it or not, despite my long posts, there is usually plenty leftover that I miss commenting on. I sincerely enjoy everyone's posts and find you all just fascinating! :-)

    pm2

  • prairiemoon2 z6b MA
    15 years ago
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    Saucy...I swear your post wasn't there when I posted...I did refresh this time! [g] How did you know the wheels have been turning in my head about getting up to see DS more? :-)

    I love hearing about your daily ins and outs with the kids. It seems like about a century ago that my kids were that age and my life sounded like yours. It's a great time of life.

    One more tropical iGoogle theme...there are so many of them, I am fascinated...lol. Some of them are like pieces of art.

  • prairiemoon2 z6b MA
    15 years ago
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    Oh...look what I found...One Laptop Per Child theme...

  • prairiemoon2 z6b MA
    15 years ago
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    There is a Nick Jonas of the Jonas Brother's one, Saucy. They also have a Chihuly one. Ok...there are over 300 different themes and you know how I am about images. It's like being in a candy store. So, last one for today...an exquisite one of Greece...

  • jak1
    15 years ago
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    Wow, what abusy forum in the last 24 hours!

    Oh Cynthia, what a disaster! You and your sister must be so disappointed. I hope she isn't in too much pain as well. Good that her kids are stepping up to the plate in her time of need. And the same applies to you V. Good foy you guys to be taking care of MIL. Rotator cuff injuries don't ever go away by themselves (ask me how I know) - sometimes surgery is required but often a course of physio will do the trick. Irt's a long haul either way.

    Interesting comments about kids and independence. Actually TCS wasn't the problem in the morning yesterday - it was all me! He was standing outside, fed, warmly dressed, teeth brushed, back pack packed and on, while I was still in the house trying to dress the dog (harness, coat, Invisible Boots), looking for my hat and mitts. I walk TCS to the bus and then walk/run the dog before I come home again. I am very pleased with TCS's mornings - he gets himself up, finds clothes, packs his stuff, and will often make his own toasted cheese sandwich, glass of milk and Flintstone. I usually try to keep him on track time-wise, by saying things like "It's coat time, Adrian" or "The hand on the clock is at the 3". That means it's 8:15 and time to be brushing teeth and finding winter duds. He's good at bedtime too, with his music practice, snack, reading etc. although he would keep his light on to all hours to continue reading! And he also takes his own bath, washing his hair himself, although I like to rinse it sometimes, as he does leave some shampoo. He also makes his own bed, it's a sloppy little nest to be sure, but he does do it himself. I think he's doing o.k. for seven years old! It's interesting that I brought up my two kids the same way, because both DH and I worked and sinmply couldn't do everything, and my DD has been very self sufficient since the age of about 17. DS on the other hand.....I'm still working on him *G*

    I like using the debit cards. We have them only for one bank account, and that is our "disposable" cash. We have another account for bills etc., and a pension goes into each account, with the bigger one into the "bill" account, so the money is always there to pay the monthly bills. My rant is because the "disposable" income always gets disposed of *LOL* This week I saw an ad from the SPCA about a rescued Boston Terrier, and I just love my Boston, so I called to see if maybe we could adopt him. The SPCA wanted an adopti0on fee of $700! Yikes! There isn't that much in the diposable account right now, so I had to send my regrets. Still sad about that one. But that's the way it works. When the dispoable is disposed of, no more spending. Simple. I should just dispose more of it myself *LOL*

    I really like the HOnda CRV. When we bought the Subaru Forester, it was toss up between it and the CRV. The only reason that the Forester won out is that DH is a big man and he didn't fit well into the CRV driver position. We now have a big horse of a Ford, but still have the all wheel drive. Once you have it, you always want it! DD just bought a Nissan Extrail (I keep calling it an Entrail *LOL* it does have "guts") with the 4 wheel drive. She commutes about 45 minutes to work, including night sifts when the plows might not yet be out, and also drives to the ski hills every week-end. The 4 wheel drive is almost an essential for her in the winter.

    We went for the $500 deductable beacause we have only had one accident in 35 or 40 years. The difference was about $50 bucks, so in the long run we are o.k. with it. Glad that our little mishap had some good consequences for somebody, PM2! My solarium window faces south east. Too hot and bright for orchids directly. When I do my pelargonium cuttings, I cut a good sized stem, remove the lower leaves, stick on some rooting hormone where I removed the leaves, and stick the stem into the dirt, I mean, earth (sorry, gardeners don't have dirt). I water carefully as they don't like to be very wet. I use clear plastic cups so I can see the root development.I usually lose a couple to "black leg", that is, the stem turns black and rots, but not many. I also water with my leftover Lotus water, which has extra oxygen and apparently has sanitizing effects. This seems to help with damping off or whatever.

    Glad to hear Ebony is better.

    I hate my hair. Doesn't matter if it short, long, or inbetween, it always looks lousy. Hmmm, maybe I'll get it cut today.

    I got carried away with JJobs yesterday, and spent an hour cleaning the grout on the kitchen floor. Looks great - but the tree is still standing in the living room. It's getting really old still having Christmas stuff around - TCS started decorating Nov. 29th!!

    Our smoke detectors are hardwired into our house, and yes, we do have a carbon monoxide detector too!

    Gotta run if I want a drive to the hair salon. No time to proofread, sorry if there are mistakes.

    Later.

    Julie

  • woodyoak zone 5 southern Ont., Canada
    15 years ago
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    gb - I just started 18 cells worth of seeds from your rose hips. (Heaven knows what I'd do with them all if they all germinate!) The seeds were a variety of colors so I'm not sure if that reflects their relative ripeness or if it is due to different varieties - are there different colored roses in that group or are they all the same? For future reference for deciding whre to plant any of them - what color(s) are they? Do they get blackspot? Are they once-blooming or repeaters?

    I wasn't intending to start many seeds this year but maybe I do need a few things.... I will be perusing seed catalogs tomorrow and making an order. I need some veggie seeds if nothing else...

    I have decided that this year's major garden project is to connect the small bed on the northeast corner of the front lawn with the Japanese wisteria I planted in 2007, to the end of the driveway border on the southeast side where the Chinese wisteria is. That will entail removing some of the brick edging on those two beds, removing the lawn between them, adding more metal edge and brick edging to connect the two and then planting the bed that results. The bed will be quite narrow as there isn't much room because of the deep ditch that runs along there. I will end up with the big front bed, an ~3' grass path, the new bed, the ditch and then the road. It will be pretty much the last new bed that can be added to the front lawn because there is no more room to plant there!

    Bring on spring!

  • Jerri_OKC
    15 years ago
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    It sure is quiet today. Where is everyone?
    I'm working from home today. My foot is starting to hurt. How can it hurt when I'm sitting in bed all day? (sigh)
    Chloe is barking her head off and I can't go see why. I wonder if my Amazon package is here. I love online shopping. :)

    I am finishing off the winding down thread. YEA!

    Jerri