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Sun, Sep 21, 14 at 18:10
| I have huge gardens here and am saving seeds like crazy. Moving long distance (with two labs and 5 outdoor cats BTW) is a huge thing and I wonder if I need to take any plants with me. Sadly, the people buying the house don't care at all about the hosta gardens and the other perennials all over the place but I really did expect that after having a similar experience in the past. The only things I will pot up and take for sure are my Itoh peonies but do I just leave all the the daylilies and hostas? And what about the lilies, Baptisia, mums and so many other things that have taken so long to acclimate and become gorgeous. We are in our 70's and if I start over from scratch, am I going to live long enough to enjoy a new landscape? Whine whine. Yes, I am complaining and I do think if I try to take a bunch of stuff, I will just add more burden to what seems like an impossibility anyway. Can't even imagine moving these cats but they are afraid of everyone and will be impossible to give away. |
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RE: Moving to TN from IL --- big dilemma
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| I had a similar dilemma a few years ago.. From TX to KY, with 4 dogs, 6 cats, 12 horses, 2 barns, 33,000 feet of mesh wire fence.....the new owners wanted nothing but the land. They pushed our house into a very large hole. I was going to dig up what was left of the roses in the garden, but came home one day, and the workers had leveled my garden. I quickly became unattached to the plants. Good luck! |
RE: Moving to TN from IL --- big dilemma
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| Say goodbye, outdoor cats will manage on their own. New owners will eventually level a "weedbed", and change things you worked hard to develop, inside and out. Don't look back. Forget the past, start over with new challenges for the future. God bless and you'll be enjoying the benefits when you're 98. |
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| Have you read Sydney Eddisons " Gardening for a Lifetime " She has written a beautiful story on the process of changing how we garden due to changes in our live. For her it was loosing her husband, but I easily applied it to similar changes in my life. I say......Grab her book, make some tea, decide what you would miss if you left behind hire a couple of boys for a few hours and dig what you want to take. Worst case, you go shopping in the spring for some hot new cultivars. <3 |
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| No Oldfixer, can't leave the cats. That would be nasty for the new owners since these cats would never warm up to them. We love them - they are part of our family so we have to take them. They would be able to find food unless we had another winter like last and that is in the cards! |
RE: Moving to TN from IL --- big dilemma
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| I have Sydney Eddison's 'A Passion for Daylilies' and will try to find the book you suggest. Thank you! |
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| Just want to say I admire your spirit and courage to undertake a move to a new state, it is a challenge at any age. I have moved a lot. The problem with moving plants is keeping them healthy until you are ready to replant them. This may mean digging new beds which is difficult to do while unpacking etc. best wishes |
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| Thank you for taking your cats with you and not abadoning them. Since you probably feed them and take care of them winter survival would be a very iffy thing. As for the garden, take only what is very precious to you and what has a good chance of surviving the winter in a pot -hostas & daylilies are good candidates. If the new owners truly do not care about the plants and give permission for removal invite a local garden club to do a dig and donate the plants to the club. Good luck to you in your new home and new garden. |
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| "..... can't leave the cats. That would be nasty for the new owners since these cats would never warm up to them. We love them - they are part of our family so we have to take them." I'm so glad you posted this so I can catch my breath again, lol. No one should ever, never, ever abandon a cat! Do your best to get them acclimated to their new surroundings before letting them outside, ....if that's what you're going to do. No matter what age moving is a big deal. I bet your head is spinning with all the things you have to plan ahead for. I moved two states over from z9 to z5, so I didn't bring a lot of plants with me. But I was surprised at how well some cuttings have done, after being packed on the truck earlier than I intended, in damp paper towels, inside a tin box. I can see you being able to pack a lot of pieces of hostas and daylilies into a plastic bag with dampened paper towels or newspapers. Open and let the plants get some air when you get there. It's not the end of the world if they don't make it, but they just might surprise you. Good luck on your move! I hope your new home is filled with happiness and many good years to come. |
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| I also want to applaud you for bringing the cats along and not even considering the idea of leaving them behind. Good for you, and I'm sure everyone will appreciate it. In addition of the great idea of inviting over the garden club (or craigslist, or Habitat for Humanity), I do hope you can save some favorites. Won't it be fun to have some of these faithful companions in your new home so they can put down roots just as you are doing the same? If it were me I would take some hostas and daylilies - just the choicest, fattest ones that would be the most fun to set up camp with in your new home. Hang in there - good luck, keep us posted. |
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Welcome in advance to tn!! What part will you be moving to ? I live on the west side of nashville , 30 miles or so out , in a rural town named burns . If you are anywhere near let me know ! I moved here from pa . I brought 4 roses with me and we had that awful freeze so they didn't make it . I too left behind so much and the new owners gave away all my plants . I really wish I had taken some daylillies I loved . If you can , think of maybe 10 plants you can't live with out , or will have a hard time replacing . Otherwise , you can find everything and more here. You will be in a different zone and that's fun !! You will be settled before you know it . |
RE: Moving to TN from IL --- big dilemma
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- Posted by dbarron Z6/7 (Oklahoma) (My Page) on
Tue, Sep 23, 14 at 9:04
I'd try to take things that command a pretty penny and aren't frequently offered, as well as those with some sentimental value....but most can be easily replaced, though it may be 3-5 years before you see them full again. For me, I have some rare native plants that as long as I was going within their tolerance zones, I'd try to take with me...and my lycoris, which some of those CVs aren't readily available and some are dumb luck to just find offered. Chances are, unless I wanted to devote half a truck bed to it, my first azalea and my first clematis would have to stay here. Both are easily replaced on the market, just the sentimental value of 35 year old plants that have grown with you. Remember, that many of your perennials probably can be divided so that you may not need to take as large a clump with you. |
RE: Moving to TN from IL --- big dilemma
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| Put a notice outside saying free as long as you dig them ...at the very least, you will know that your treasured plants are not going to end up under concrete. There are some legendary gardens which have been created in just over 3 years - grow a lot of annuals and propagate like crazy - you will see the results of your efforts in just a few weeks rather than years. Sounds a bit glib...but it is about the process rather than the results....try not to fret and good luck herding the cats. Sardine traps? |
RE: Moving to TN from IL --- big dilemma
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| Yes, I plan to propagate like crazy! I 'Wintersow" every January and I am collecting seeds of everything. As far as the cats go, I am not that great of a person. We are not taking the cats with us to help anybody but ourselves! They are family. |
RE: Moving to TN from IL --- big dilemma
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| Anyone who considers cats as family members counts as a pretty great person in my book! (In fact, I like certain cats quite a bit better than certain people, but I suppose that is a topic for another thread...) |
RE: Moving to TN from IL --- big dilemma
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| what gives ... am i dreaming ...??? didnt i google up your county in KY just last winter ...???? seriously.... am i really this confused ... at least tell me it was two years ago??? ken |
RE: Moving to TN from IL --- big dilemma
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| I'm another person who prefers cats to many people, so I have left gardens behind but never cats. Three years ago DH and I drove in separate cars from MA to NM. I had the two cats and all the container plants. DH had luggage and stuff we needed when we arrived. It took a week and fortunately I've blocked most of it from memory. When I left Iowa, I invited friends to come and take cuttings, divisions and gave away most of my gardening tools. So even if I left the gardens I had created over 10 years, at least some of the plants survived in other homes. I'm sure the new owners managed to trash everything in no time flat. I would take cuttings or divisions of rare plants, give away lots to friends and neighbors and leave everything else. Gardens reflect their owners. In a short time your garden won't be recognizable. Good luck, Cheryl |
RE: Moving to TN from IL --- big dilemma
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| Don't know what you googled. Our house was on the market since Feb. and we have been looking at several different areas in TN. It still isn't a done deal but we are close. |
RE: Moving to TN from IL --- big dilemma
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| must have been someone else ... they were wondering what they could grow in TN.. as compared to wherever they were previously ... i think i looked up their potential extension office ... whatever.. good luck ... ken |
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