I couldn't decide what to call this thread as its really two threads, or lets call them vignettes, that are totally different, yet somewhat related (if Hollywood can do it, well, then so can I!). This is a little bit of a rant...

Heliopsis blues: I am totally in love with my unnamed Heliopsis. This year I moved some to be closer together so it was more like a patch of these flowers. Well, this year it grew much larger than last (duh?) and began spreading out in the center (partially due to height, partially to the abundance of rain we've had this summer, that is, as compared to last year at least). No big deal though - I'll just split a few and pinch them back next year. I was ecstatic last year when I read of all the problems these have with aphids and, after careful inspection, I found not a one (the worlds biggest grass hopper and Mr. Stick Bug from last year must have been excellent security for the heliopsis.... I realize that now... that was a joke... kind of).
So this year, needless to say, I was disappointed when I realized after, I believe it was, Rouge21 posted about his heliopsis having worms/larve living inside the head of the flowers. Comparing his photos to mine I realized I have the same problem this year. But no matter, I still love my heliopsis. "I'm sorry you have worms eating away at your insides but I love you never the less. Thank god you don't have any... APHIDS!!!!" The plants are covered with them out of nowhere. I sprayed them off with the hose and was able to get them totally removed from one plant in one area with this method but I have three large plants in another area that I just can't seem to get them all.

So now, cut to later that evening, me googling how to attract lady bugs, and maybe where to buy some. I turn to my partner and say "Did you know lady bugs were imported here to help control aphids on orange trees?" He says "oh, that's interesting" (read between the lines, "why are you reading about lady bugs?"). "And did you know that lady bugs can eat like 1500 aphids in a day!?" I asked. He's onto me, now. He knows something is up. "And did you know you can buy a bag of 100 lady bugs for $18 online!" The only thing he could say was "the internet is a dangerous thing for people like you...." (while walking away mumbling something about "buying bugs on the internet, unbelievable..."). This is how you know you have it bad (both the gardening bug and aphids lol)... when you're buying bugs online...

I feel much better now