I would prefer a small-to-medium size tree that would provide shade yet can have a manageable size. Probably 25 to 30 feet tall and around 20 - 25 feet wide.
thank you so much in advance for your advise.

The second tree is ok, reds mostly, but it's ok. The third tree does not color at all. Leaves turn brown, period. Luckily, this one is planted near the bottom field where it still contributes. It provides shelter for birds, and isn't bothered by deer.

A larger species of Carpinus, C. betulus, called Lime Tree in Britian, grows faster and gets larger. (Lime Tree because it grows well on limey soils.) It responds very well to pruning and shearing. It also holds the leaves on until late in the winter, which means that unless you take your rake out in the snow, you won't have to rake the leaves. It could be hard to locate a C. betulus species. Most in the trade are 'Fastigata', which has its uses, but is very fastigate.

Thanks again.

+oM

Midwest, do a search for Blue Beech, one of its common names. some places will say "slow growing", but moderate growth would be more accurate.

Thanks again.

Tonight I heard a program talking about trees that fall onto houses, power lines, etc. They spoke to a tree expert from NH who specifically mentioned C.caroliniana as a desirable tree to plant. And I had to love her when she mentioned avoiding fast growing trees that provide instant gratification and fall when the wind blows. She was also decidedly cool to conifers, mentioning White Pine as brittle and prone to breakage. Another point was that any tree within 15 ft of a house was too close.

Dax

I'll link ya.

Dax